Over the past few weeks, I have had a couple people in professional settings try to force friendship on me. One example, a new colleague of mine wants to talk more often than needed, tells me to call if I ever need to vent, mentions getting drinks after work…etc… We are peers. We just work in different areas.
I’m instantly uncomfortable. Developing professional relationships while I’m working is important but I think friendship in a professional setting just organically happens, without being forced.
I’m not that exciting in the workplace, nor am I popular. I’m Type A, direct, intense…those are the words that people have used to describe me at work, so I don’t understand the appeal. I’m flattered but uncomfortable!
Serious question: Has anyone ever experienced this or something similar? How did you handle it? My current tactic is avoidance.
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